Showing posts with label Ministry. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Ministry. Show all posts

Tuesday, April 08, 2008

like riding a bike

I was given this idiom as advice from several people for leading worship (1st time in over 2 years). Good advice, but my experience was more like riding a tricycle on the interstate going in the wrong direction. There were some sudden stops and loud noises and bad-words-going-through-my-head.
Musically (both voice and guitar), things went well. The set-list was: You Never Let Go (Matt Redman), Hope To Carry On (Caedmon’s Call) [this is a stand-by for me that is easy to teach and sing without music], and Marvelous Light (Charlie Hall). The songs flowed well together and even went with the theme of the evening: Spring is representative of the change Christ works in our lives (especially “Marvelous Light”). The youth group I was playing for was a small crowd (5 kids and 5 adults – it was Spring Break, so numbers were low), but they were welcoming, involved in singing and worshipping, and even kind in clapping for me at the end of my set. I accidentally cut them off to transition through prayer as I was not expecting such a small crowd to be involved in any way.
However, about half-way through the first song the Hispanic service worship team began practicing in the sanctuary. For this to be of any meaning to you, you must understand the set-up of the facility. It is a warehouse, not a traditional church building. There are subdivisions for rooms, offices, and sanctuary, but the walls do not reach all the way to the ceiling and also do not keep out any sound at all. As there are limited resources for the small youth ministry, I was playing acoustically and without any amplification. The worship team however, decided to plug into the sound system and pump their volume up pretty high. So much so that I was playing and singing at one volume throughout – really loud – just to be heard. There was no intonation or natural rising and falling throughout the songs. Then during the pause between the 2nd and 3rd song, the volume of the praise band raised to a new level with very fast percussion beats. I could barely hear myself playing the guitar much less get the correct rhythm in my head. Eventually, I was able to start by singing a little, catching up with the correct tempo on the guitar and then getting my voice at the correct pitch. Not the best, but it worked.
So, all in all, it was a fun experience. I didn’t come away crying but getting a new perspective on “space” issues (it’s more than just square footage). I will be playing again at either of the two upcoming meetings (there will be a band at the other one).
Help me keep laughing at this situation by sharing a story (or two) that tells of a time when you were leading something and outside forces just made your efforts laughable. Keep it light.

Sunday, June 10, 2007

Becoming Grown Up

I'm excited over something that many of you will chuckle at me about. I am not a morning person and in fact have been known to sleep through a number of meetings/snooze alarms in the past. However, this past year, I have been purposefully scheduling class and work for 8am in the morning to try and force myself to become "an adult." I am pleased to say that not only am I becoming more reliable about being up in the mornings, but I have woken up the past four mornings without the aid of an alarm clock (or before it went off). This is exciting to me as I have wanted to not waste a major part of the day by sleeping through it. This is the good side of becoming grown up for me right now.

Friday, Joanna and I went back to GA to spend time with her side of the family since her brother's fam (whom we haven't seen in about 3 years) would be there throughout this week. It was a blast swimming and playing with all our neices and nephews, catching up with my "in-law" brothers and sisters, riding with my father-in-law to pick up something and talking during this short ride, and in general being part of this family I married into [Hopefully, pictures will come soon- Joanna still has the camera and will be gone for at least another week, though]. Unfortunately, I had to leave this morning to make it back in time for work tomorrow and accomplishing all the studying I need done for my Greek class. As I was leaving, Debbie (my mother-in-law) said to me "We wish you could've stayed longer." And while she didn't say this with any kind of purpose in her heart other than just a simple wish to have me around more, it jabbed me a little because it seems like I've always been rushing off whenever I've been around the Deal family. Being a youth minister for four years did not lend itself to a lot of free time, being a current seminary student who is a study-aholic also restricts my free time, and knowing that I will be a minister in the future makes me a little worried that I won't ever have the time or take the time to spend with long-distance family. This is the bad side of becoming grown up for me right now.

Do you have thoughts on how to make family time better, more possible, etc, when you have a job that requires your presence during the weekend (i.e. the time when everyone else is off work)? I expect this will be a struggle throughout my life.

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